The Evolution of Mistress Jaiy!

I thought it was time to write about my evolution into the world of BDSM. I really can't believe I've been researching, and participating in BDSM for over 9 years.

My first interest into domination started after reading a novel (Not 50 Shades of Grey..lol). in the novel there was a woman that played a role of submissive to a man, and found that she was not good at being a slave, but would be better suited as the dominant. She had this guy worshipping her and following her every commands. In the beginning she was fired from a position for falsifying her credentials on her resume, but was doing a stellar job in the position. She had a guy so under her control that she had him buy the company and make her the new owner and she went in and fired the people who fired her..Ha now that's power.!

Needless to say the novel peeked my interest, so I decided to read a little bit about domination. I wanted to know more. As I read more and researched more on the mind of a submissive or slave and the differences between the two I got more intrigued. As I started learning the traits and dameanors of a dominatrix I saw similarities within myself. I was a little scared to take the leap of actually taking on slaves and truly being a dominatrix.

I once had a friend (in the vanilla world) whom I thought would eventually end up being something more than friendship. One day while chatting he asked if I had any female friends that I could introduce him to, because he felt I was too dominant and independent to deal with. I had to laugh at that.

The next nudge for me to take the full step into exploring BDSM was when I was doing online dating and a guy asked me had I ever thought about being a dominatrix. he said he only asked because my conversation and demeanor struck him as a dominatrix. He said he was willing to be my test dummy, so to speak. I said, "Sure, Why not?" He came over with his little bag of goodies. This was the first time I actually held a flogger and saw ball weights. While playing I came to learn that I liked CBT. I enjoyed flogging his balls, kicking them, stomping them squeezing the life out of them, etc...

I then had another who wanted to be my slave, and with him is where I learned bondage. He'd let me tie him up and I enjoyed the experience of just leaving him hog tied and staring up at me in some sexy clothing (Non nude of course). I also started to explore domestic slaves and of course I enjoyed it. Having a slave who liked worshipping me and waiting on me dressed as my sissy slave , or maid, feet worshipping, and doing chores I've demanded him to do was exhilerating. But my ultimate favorite came when I first bent a sub over a chair; took a paddle and spanked his ass. That's when I started my red asses collection. I loved doing it.

I began doing domination as a professional because I felt I liked doing it so much why not be paid for it. I've learned that I don't particularly like to have a sub/slave as my full partner (love to put them in chastity and keep them locked up). I just like being their Mistress their goddess to worship.

Then I met a lifestyle slave who liked to wroship me, he lived far, but would come and visit. During one of our conversations I told him to list ways he would serve me. So we would be able to establish what his hard limits were etc. He mentioned he could be my ATM.

Now at that time I had no clue about financial domination. So I started to read more on the actual fetish of it. The relationship between D/s. I rencetly started to dive into financial domination.I received enjoyment from receiving gifts and money from my slave. It's such a high to know that a slave/sub adores you so much they are willing to sacrifice and provide for you. They worship me to the highest level. Money has always been said to be POWER and as a dominant how can I not want more power and control.

The long term adoration of a slave, giving assignments, humiliating, & other forms of BDSM is what I love the most. I am still learning and evolving into the financial domination world. but I love the power and I love financial slaves.

That's my evolution, so far. So although I am stritctly a pro domme who loves financial domiantion and money slaves. I have been on this journey for a long time, and I am still on it. I will not say that I am an expert of financial domination , but you should know you're money and gifts makes me happy, so understand the key to me is long term financial servitude to me. not just a cash and grab I like to know my subs. talking chatting.

Don't be alarmed a admirer is always welcome to send a one time payment, but you wouldn't be my slave.

Just a small insight into me.

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