Reflecting On My 2014 Year In The Financial Domination Scene

I was sitting down thinking about my previous year in kink. As I thought about all the different things I've read on others profiles, seen what each individual does, whether it's as a Professional domme, findommes, lifestyle dommes, it made me think about my reasons for entering domination. I thought about the things I like and things I didn't particularly care for.

My observation may make some get up in arms, but hey it's my opinión.

My reasons for getting into domination initially was because I am a dominant person by nature and love being in control, I like inflicting pain, having slaves worship me, and to humiliate is a huge enjoyment to me. The relationship between a submissive/ slave & Domme is one of trust and understanding and one of true power exchange when it comes to financial domination.

I started doing Professional domination after a few years of reading, researching, and learning on my own with willing participating slaves...lol. As I went into doing it as a pro domme joining different social sites , message boards etc I see the unwelcoming nature of some other dommes. I noticed this mostly in financial domination sites and boards. I always see post of people talking about insta dommes...lol. even boards that will delete you out of their group if you're new to financial domination.

I asked myself, where or how did they get started? ( Not that these new findoms are asking for help, they are just new) At one point it was your first time as well. Some women may end up being insta dommes because to start out new is so unwelcoming. If this is something you have been doing for a Long time and you're confident in your slaves to be loyal why does it matter if a new person starts out. Must we Dog them and make them feel unwelcomed? Now dont get me wrong if the person doesnt have any interest in kink besides the Money aspect it makes me supicious, but if controlling someone through money alone is their only kink then that's their kink. We fight for people to understand that financial domination is the ultimate kink, the sacrifice slaves make to add someone to their budget. The feeling they may get when they see that their Mistress is happy with their Tribute or when a purchase from her wishlist arrives. Controlling their mind through finance. Financial domination is the ultimate sacrafice for a slave and the highest level of trust, because we are now talking about their lively hoods, Money they could spend on something else. It's a relationship that is very seldom understood.

Then the thought of this being a source of depending income, started to wonder within my mind as I know some do this as a living. Everyone may not agree and feel different, but I could not do it. My dominant nature makes me unable to depend on anyone for anything. I work and provide for myself, if slaves wants to adopt a Bill and reimburse me I'm Fine with it, but depending on them to do it, I can't fathom myself doing that. I say, "dependency can be your greatest downfall" and if you're dominant shouldnt you be independent? If you think about it, if you can't pay your bills because a slave decides he no longer wants to serve you or just can't do it, does that mean that essentially you're serving them and not the other way around? You're stuck with the illusion that you're the one in control, but they control you through their wallet.

Yes, I do pro domme but its is mostly a side hobby or gig I do because I enjoy it. I enjoy taking a slaves money, just because, but I also love humiliating a slave, spanking asses, and bonding them up and leaving them with nothing to do but watch me teasing them in sexy clothing and lingerie (non nude) ..ha. No reasoning behind anything, I do it just because I Want to, not because I need too.

I am also well aware that there's probably more people in the World that don't like me then who do. Oh well that's their issue and I wasn't put on earth to really give a shit. So take me or leave me I am who I am.

So Sissies and slaves, serve and Tribute because I love to be spoiled , but don't be confused I am in control !!

Just my first rant of 2015

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